We as human beings have a great need for close personal intimacy. Whether this is a hug and a cuddle from a parent, a handshake with an old friend, a peck on the cheek as a greeting, all the way to full-blown intercourse. This is something we all enjoy and to a certain extent have a need for.
So imagine how debilitating it would be if you are a man who has been told there is nothing physically wrong with you, but you find it impossible to achieve an erection with your partner, even though you crave the intimacy that love making brings, arguably one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences that two people can share together.
We have in our profession as Cognitive Hypnotherapists dealt with many such cases and they are amongst the most rewarding, for the simple reason that we can help people achieve happiness and fulfilment using resources that are hugely important to them.
Using Cognitive Hypnotherapy and NLP we start the process by taking a history of the client and together we work out what the issue may be. For example, if the client has feelings of low self-esteem, we put him into a trance using voice alone and regress the client back to the first event related to this his feelings of low self-esteem. When we arrive at this event we invite the client to look down on whatever the situation is, that he can see himself in the past, and ask him to tell the him from then what he would need to know from the him from know to change the memory to make it better. Then we bring the client all the way back to the present, while seeing any memories that in the past would have been a problem relating to the feelings of low self-esteem and seeing how much better they feel about those situations. Then with the client still in trance we invite him to imagine a time in the future, where if it had been before we had done this exercise, there would have been a problem and show him how much better the situation is after he had changed the meaning of the original memory. Then we bring the client back to the present and count him back into the room so he comes out of the trance feeling refreshed and ready to carry on with his life.
Working with clients with this most fascinating issue can give hope where in the past there was none. If there is nothing physically wrong then it will be the unconscious mind directing the body in a way that the conscious mind does not want. Using Cognitive Hypnotherapy and NLP we can change the behaviour that is causing the unconscious mind to create undesirable behaviours, such as loss of erections or premature ejaculation.
Cognitive Hypnotherapy is a therapy whereby the therapist only uses the resources of the client to help the client achieve what he wants. We are very solution-driven and will not spend years going over the same problem with a client. This will ensure trust between us and the client will always be in control of the situation throughout the entire therapy.
We feel that the last point is worth repeating. Even in trance the client is in full control of what is happening; the therapist cannot make the client do anything they do not want to do.
If you would like help with sexual performance using Cognitive Hypnotherapy and NLP, please call: 01932 354994 or email
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